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Was it real love?

We are humans and for us it is not uncommon to either dwell in the past or think about the future. Due to my book “Make Love Work” I was addressed by are reader who wanted to know if her

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The Curse of Being a Princess

Today I am going to tell you a sad story. It is the story of a woman and man in a far place and I guess even far in time. The woman was a little princess, like all the woman there. Then on day a man crossed her path and because she was not very experienced, she thought this feeling she felt was love. It made her feel good but she was a smart woman too. Like a princess in a mud kingdom she had grown up under hard conditions,

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Are you married or in a long lasting relationship?

First I thought this is a silly question. Why would anybody read this blog, if all is fine in the emotional section of his/he life?
But there it starts! You can be married or in a long time relationship and still not be happy, feel …

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You raped me!

Many years ago, a former girlfriend told me that. It hit me like a hammer. All of you who are married or have a longer relationship know the situation when one side wants sex and the partner is tired or has a headache. Will you agree that rape

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Is rape an issue?

For a very long time for me rape was only a sexual issue. I am not sure what changed it. I grew up in a post war Germany with a lot of sexual re-pressings. A lot of German woman had been raped

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Why do you want a spouse?

Read the the group we are in influences our acceptance by the other gender. And wonder why do we want a parter to be less free and have more responsibility

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Womanizers and Womanizing

Are womanizers brutes who enjoy dumping inexperienced girls? Or are the kind people that bring love to people that are prisoners of their own standards? What if life is about learning to love and not about being flawless?

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