Monthly Archives: May 2011

Adultry in the Mind

There, our pastor told us about the 10 commandments and that “Thou shallst not desire your neighbors wife …” And of course only thinking about it, would be sin.
I said how can that be? I first have to think (I want this woman) before I know what I will think and know it is a sin…

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Are you married or in a long lasting relationship?

First I thought this is a silly question. Why would anybody read this blog, if all is fine in the emotional section of his/he life?
But there it starts! You can be married or in a long time relationship and still not be happy, feel …

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You raped me!

Many years ago, a former girlfriend told me that. It hit me like a hammer. All of you who are married or have a longer relationship know the situation when one side wants sex and the partner is tired or has a headache. Will you agree that rape

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Is rape an issue?

For a very long time for me rape was only a sexual issue. I am not sure what changed it. I grew up in a post war Germany with a lot of sexual re-pressings. A lot of German woman had been raped

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Let it be or trying to be in control

I think we all agree that we cannot control life. I think we cannot even control our own life. So I am not talking about controlling life, but being in control! This is a tiny line and …

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Would you like to help me?

I do not like to beg.  But I know begging is an art. They say some beggars (in India) are rich. I do not mind or care. But begging is not always begging. Do you know this little film in

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Broken hearts

What can we do when we have a broken hear? How can we mend it? A woman with a broken heart shared her experience with me and I share it with you. If you need to heal, come and read the blog.

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